Tolerance: this must be one of our society’s most valued catch-phrases. It’s thrown around on the TV, in the newspapers, by our friends and at our universities. Tolerance seems to be at the forefront of many political and social discussions. But what does tolerance mean?
Does it mean that if we disagree with someone else, then we’re intolerant? Does it mean that we must accept all people’s opinions and the subsequent outworking of their opinion? If this is what is meant by tolerance, then the world is an intolerant place, and I have to say – so it should be (and so should I be). If we were to accept all people’s views, then we’d have to accept the acts of terrorists who kill innocent people as OK. We’d have to accept the actions of Hitler, and Chairman Mao. But this is not true tolerance. This form of tolerance does not and cannot work. True tolerance, can never accept evil to reign.
The world wants Christians to be tolerant, but we need to figure out what true tolerance is. Reading my 50 year-old Oxford Dictionary, the classic definition of true tolerance is to be able to disagree with another person, but still be able to love/relate to them in a peaceful/positive way.
As Christians, we believe that we have the truth, not because we are special in and of ourselves, but because we believe that God has spoken in His Word, the Bible. If God, the all-knowing God, had never spoken, then we would not know Him, and we would not know truth or have any right to say we have absolute truth. But He has spoken: Long ago, at many times and in many ways, God spoke to our fathers by the prophets, but in these last days he has spoken to us by His Son (Hebrews 1:1-2). We know God, and we know that His message is a message of love and hope (John 3:16). Because of this, our message to the world can never be one of shouting from the rooftops that we’re right and you’re wrong, but instead needs to be a communication of the love of God for His world.
Yes, as Christians, we disagree with other religions; yes we disagree with many of today’s society norms, and yes, we hate the evil atrocities of this world (e.g. 9/11, the Rwanda Genocide). We are not to be blindly intolerant. But we are to be people of love, as our King and Saviour is love (1 John 4:8). It is love that should be seen as our defining characteristic (even amongst our disagreements).
Are you a person of love? Do people see you as a person of love, especially when you disagree with them? Or are you rude or arrogant? This is a good prayer I’ve learnt to pray; maybe you might like to pray it with me: “Lord, help me to be a person who holds fast to your truth, and speaks and lives your truth in love. Amen.”
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